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Cameron's essay is the clearest statement in this map of the distinction between marked and unmarked identities, and of why that distinction matters for who can speak freely. Her subject is the sociolinguistics of heterosexuality, a topic she notes barely exists, and the reason it barely exists is the point: heterosexuality is the unmarked category, taken for granted, and unmarked things do not get studied. She traces the logic back through Lakoff, whose account of women's language contrasted it not with men's language but with neutral language, so that women were marked for gender in a way men simply were not. The dominant group's identity is the default against which everything else is a deviation requiring explanation. Cameron's crucial move is to name what this asymmetry does. For subordinated groups, the politics of visibility are about resisting exclusion and demonisation; but for dominant groups a certain invisibility is itself part of the privilege, because their taken-for-granted status as just regular folks means their ways of behaving never attract critical scrutiny. The unmarked are not neutral, merely unexamined. Drawing on Butler's performativity and on Kitzinger's conversation analysis, she then shows the mechanism working at the scale of a single utterance: a straight speaker mentioning a spouse in passing is doing being ordinary, and the reference quietly confers social legitimacy on whatever else is being said; a non-straight speaker making the analogous reference to a partner is heard instead as making an issue of their sexuality, and the talk runs into trouble. For a corpus about psychological safety this is the sharpest available demonstration that the cost of an ordinary remark is not the same for everyone in the room. Safety cannot be a property of a team alone if the same sentence is unremarkable from one mouth and a statement from another; the marked speaker is doing extra work, and paying an extra tax, simply to say what the unmarked speaker says for free. It also names why the powerful so rarely notice: not being scrutinised feels like nothing at all. Its limits are those of a reprinted talk-turned-essay, illustrative and theoretical, drawing on case studies from hostess clubs, fraternity gossip and pre-adolescent peer groups rather than presenting new systematic data, and its examples centre sexuality rather than the workplace, so the transfer is one the reader makes. (Text drawn from the 2014 Langage et société article, no. 148, pp. 75-93, an edited version of a 2003 talk previously published in On Language and Sexual Politics, 2006.)